Australian singles have been doing it tough during lockdown. We’ve heard all about the struggles of walking dates (which allegedly make what might otherwise be star crossed lovers ‘friendzone’ each other) and the toughness of being alone in a room, with no one to see, pouring your heart and soul into sourdough tutorials.
It’s enough to make anyone bitter.
if you’re living with your partner during lockdown I would like you to know that I actively hate you
— Georgia (@georgiamariexo)
But before you look at your coupled up friends and sigh with jealousy, hold on a second. Living with your partner during lockdown isn’t a cakewalk either, Heidi Gee, sex therapist and couple’s counsellor told DMARGE.
In fact, she said, even though it might look like your friends in relationships have the perfect ‘2021 set-up’, social media could be hiding a much tougher reality – the pressure cooker of inmate life.
“I see a lot of couples. Mental health and communication has been a struggle for a lot of my clients and a lot [are] craving that human interaction.”
“It really puts things to the test – hey we’ve had communication issues and now it’s right in front of us.”
She says there have been “intimacy issues as well… sex issues.”
“These things are in the forefront now and I’m finding that a lot of my clients are struggling with this.”
Stats from across the world show we’re not alone.
1 in 8 Britons living with a partner in…
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